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The Human Element;

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 1:10 am
by junglejustice
A recent (very unpleasant) exchange with another member here, made me think to send him a picture under private cover of my 8-month-old daughter along with some kind words - sort of as a peace-offering if you will – thus including him in a very private and important part of "my" world and taking that “human” step toward him....

He responded by first insulting me under private email cover in the most disgusting way, then rejecting the "reach", finally mocking the gesture here publicly, and ultimately referring to this beautiful part of my life that I chose to share with him as "...some little rat-faced kid…” I found his post to be vile, insensitive, and typical of him and chose not to engage him any further. (The full scope of his mind can be viewed here: http://www.alfagtv6.com/bb/viewtopic.php?t=426&start=90

Any way, instead, I thought that I would start this thread and post a picture of my "little rat-faced kid” to encourage others here to do the same! Common! Forget the whole privacy-don’t want to get lawyer’ed-politically correct-oh-no, what if somebody stalks me-protectionist outer-shell and indulge me for a moment. I hope that others here would join me in sharing that little personal part of their lives, with those of us who care....

The more I think about it; often times we do take this hobby pretty seriously, (we talk all day with one-another), but most of us don’t even know what the other person looks like that just got us so worked up - does he have a family – just like me, does he put on his pants one leg at a time – just like me and so forth…?

I would like to see pictures of members, couples, spouses, families, dogs, homes - anything with the human element ingrained in it! (And yes, especially pictures of little rat-faced kids…!)

Cheers, John van Rensburg

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 3:24 am
by SamW
OK,

No family pictures, cause no family, I spend too much time in the garage working on my toys, and when I am not there, I am out enjoying what I work on... This was my first rebuild project, $500 in someone's back yard half taken apart with all the spares stored under a pick-up truck camper shell in the yard. For all those in the US, I bought it from a Waffle House waitress's husband!

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 3:58 am
by rz
here's a picture of my son!
he's 23 month old and crazy about my car.
already an alfa freak

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 4:05 am
by tectoteam
I'm not yet father, also, i'm not so old in fact, i'm just waiting the good date.

but if Brian cannot understand that it makes you happy; had children and you want to communicate this enthoutsiat and happyness, this is just distressing...

you want to figth with words, do it, but never go far waway.
i hope that anybody knows that; this is the first that lose self control -> who lose.

in this case, perhaps Brian had a problem with you or you have a problem with him, BUT ! insults means that brian dont know any other form of intelligence for speaking and explain is thinking form.

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 6:22 am
by ar4me
My son - about 1 year ago, he is now closing in on 3 years. Crazy about Alfas - my milano is still his favorite and preferred car when we go for a spin. We build race tracks with Lego, and he races his Alfa around the track.

Jes

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 4:28 pm
by junglejustice
Thanks tectoteam

Cool kid Jes - In all this time working together on the 3.7s, I never saw a pic of Jonas (or of Judy...)

He must look like her! (Ha-ha...)

rz - Cool kid and car!

Sam, always loved the old GoldWings

Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 8:44 pm
by Zamani
My 2year old son

Next one is with my 164S

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:22 am
by Greg Gordon
This is a great thread. I need to get out the digital camera myself.

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 12:56 pm
by Greg Gordon
This first picture is my dad working on a Verde Head. The tool bench has holes drilled in it so we can bolt V6 heads right to it. That sure makes things easy!

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 1:10 pm
by Greg Gordon
Here is my wife in the garage packing stuff up. She is pretty good at driving Alfa transaxle cars.

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 1:15 pm
by Greg Gordon
Here is my 16 year old daughter. She drives her own GTV6 and makes all the hose kits we sell. She also does light automotive work like oil changes, intake installations etc. She has been riding in my GTV6 since she was 7 and she has always really liked it. I should point out she was trying to stop me from taking this photo, hence the "get away dad expression".

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 1:25 pm
by Greg Gordon
Here is my 14 year old son making an Milano intake bracket.

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 1:43 pm
by Greg Gordon
This little one is my 4 year old Isaac. Isaac has Down's syndrome which which means he does everything a little slower then you would see with a normal kid. However we are really lucky that he doesn't have the defects or disabilities normaly associated with Down's. He is a big Alfa fan and trys to get us to take an Alfa every time we drive somewhere. He especailly loves my little girl's GTV6 because it's really loud.

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 2:47 pm
by MerrilGordon
So Greg,
What additional Alfa do you (or your son) have lined up for when he turn's driving age ;-)
Merril

Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 3:01 pm
by Greg Gordon
Whatever he buys for himself! My older son Jordan likes Z cars, 2nd generation Eclipes/Talons, Mustangs, and Supras so I don't think he will get an Alfa.

As for Isaac, well I have never seen someone with Down's drive a car so I don't know. Then again he goes to school with normal kids which is pretty unusual.