The Human Element;
Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 1:10 am
A recent (very unpleasant) exchange with another member here, made me think to send him a picture under private cover of my 8-month-old daughter along with some kind words - sort of as a peace-offering if you will – thus including him in a very private and important part of "my" world and taking that “human” step toward him....
He responded by first insulting me under private email cover in the most disgusting way, then rejecting the "reach", finally mocking the gesture here publicly, and ultimately referring to this beautiful part of my life that I chose to share with him as "...some little rat-faced kid…” I found his post to be vile, insensitive, and typical of him and chose not to engage him any further. (The full scope of his mind can be viewed here: http://www.alfagtv6.com/bb/viewtopic.php?t=426&start=90
Any way, instead, I thought that I would start this thread and post a picture of my "little rat-faced kid” to encourage others here to do the same! Common! Forget the whole privacy-don’t want to get lawyer’ed-politically correct-oh-no, what if somebody stalks me-protectionist outer-shell and indulge me for a moment. I hope that others here would join me in sharing that little personal part of their lives, with those of us who care....
The more I think about it; often times we do take this hobby pretty seriously, (we talk all day with one-another), but most of us don’t even know what the other person looks like that just got us so worked up - does he have a family – just like me, does he put on his pants one leg at a time – just like me and so forth…?
I would like to see pictures of members, couples, spouses, families, dogs, homes - anything with the human element ingrained in it! (And yes, especially pictures of little rat-faced kids…!)
Cheers, John van Rensburg
He responded by first insulting me under private email cover in the most disgusting way, then rejecting the "reach", finally mocking the gesture here publicly, and ultimately referring to this beautiful part of my life that I chose to share with him as "...some little rat-faced kid…” I found his post to be vile, insensitive, and typical of him and chose not to engage him any further. (The full scope of his mind can be viewed here: http://www.alfagtv6.com/bb/viewtopic.php?t=426&start=90
Any way, instead, I thought that I would start this thread and post a picture of my "little rat-faced kid” to encourage others here to do the same! Common! Forget the whole privacy-don’t want to get lawyer’ed-politically correct-oh-no, what if somebody stalks me-protectionist outer-shell and indulge me for a moment. I hope that others here would join me in sharing that little personal part of their lives, with those of us who care....
The more I think about it; often times we do take this hobby pretty seriously, (we talk all day with one-another), but most of us don’t even know what the other person looks like that just got us so worked up - does he have a family – just like me, does he put on his pants one leg at a time – just like me and so forth…?
I would like to see pictures of members, couples, spouses, families, dogs, homes - anything with the human element ingrained in it! (And yes, especially pictures of little rat-faced kids…!)
Cheers, John van Rensburg